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"Immutable FLAW is the denial our conscience loves to envy perfection."

-John Ralph Tuccitto
​​July 17, 2022

This quote spells out FLAW.  The mystery to the mind’s limitations can be isolated knowing envy is why no one enjoys love dominated by yearning.  I’ve found peace  (without envy).  I thanked Jesus for this insight because it cleaned my conscience of mysteries surrounding man's "immutable flaw."  Romantic crushes from my past represented mystery (and the perceived perfections) that deluded me for decades, were grounded in my envy to acquire desire.  In a sentence, I'm a man who prioritizes a clean conscience; even if that destroys bonds.

John Ralph Tuccitto (two-CHEE-toe)

I don't charge and I don't pay.

I want to help people make sense of their uncontrollably deviant thoughts before they die with regret.  Through a mythology I created, I help people overcome past trauma, and accept their flaws to embrace the inevitable.  I hunt fire to know Jesus between the cross and resurrection.  That revelation will have us respond (with thanks) the mercy Jesus deserved.  I clear ones conscience to prepare people to live and die without regret.

If you dismiss me because of my faith, you are welcome to fuck off.  I'm not an evangelist, so I'm happy to leave you twisting in the wind with your depression and suicidal thoughts.  I was not religious when I started this quest, I was in fact a heathen.  Question: can an ultimate God elude us on a need to know basis?  When does God appear?  When you least expect it.  For me it was psychosis.

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What is viscosity? (Expand)

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The mind is the motor, and the motor oil's viscosity represents progressive change.  Viscosity defines fluid's stubbornness to flow (or change progressively).   Why is this related to disability?  Having a broken brain may equal a unique advantage through their mind's viscosity.  How?  Mentally disabled people are utterly forced to know themselves perpetually or change progressively (out of shear denial).  People in denial have no incentive to know themselves; ironically it's very worthwhile to do so (at the expense other people's mental independence).  Politics keeps all of us enemies through our denial of conservatism.  Conservatives are in denial of the fact they are ignorant.  Liberals are in denial of the fact ignorance is a good thing given they claim God doesn't exist.  The cult of certainty divides.  That's why a career of denial and delusion will not end well for those with incompatible viscosity.  Example?  A mainstream-woke person indoctrinates other people (with their denial and delusions) to force peers to adopt their fallible interpretation of reality.  How?  Accommodation.

​With your parenting, mentally disabled people have the WILL to excel (when appropriately accommodated).  However, inappropriate accommodation for mentally disabled people can have damaging effects towards the innocent.   Gender confusion is an unhinged mental illness terraforming the ability to divide society to suit their minorities.  For example, mainstream-woke teachers in the public school system groom students to accommodate their denial and delusions of being incestous pedophiles.  By the system over-accommodating the mentally ill, "wokeness" bloomed to overrepresent minority politics by dictating policy of the majority rule (with threat of protest or violence). 

Accommodation has gone TOO fucking far, and that's called "Woke" my friend.  Why has this happened?  Poor parenting? Bad management?  Mainstream-woke people...please don't resent the reality of privilege, because that's how life was truly intended to proceed within the universe.  Reality is a privilege mainstream-wokists SORELY lack.  THIS explains your irritation with the majority. Why should that upset you?  You may not be compatible with true reality without SEVERE accommodation.  However, minorities DOMINATE the viscosity of the companies they work for.  Why?  Mental illness is a path to low-level celebrity (within an idiocracy).

"Celebrity" entitles the ill to accommodations that overrepresent minority politics.  Stop accommodating the mentally ill both on the left and right; let them choose to not be exposed to contrasting opinions.  Wokeness must not be censored, it must be exposed to superior ideas (very briefly), like the gift of God.  Through repetition, society uplifts IQ through debate and discussion.  Free speech.  People who listen to me are a gift from God.  I serve God's gifts.  You are my gift.  

​Censorship has destroyed the far left's (and right's) ability to compromise with a sworn enemy.  For politically centered people, compromise is a novelty.  Relating to people with different views has its charm.  Under censorship, companies/governments control their clients/citizens through denial and delusion.  The mind is the motor, and the motor oil's viscosity represents progressive change.  Question for you: Does censorship adapt its clients to change, or does censorship force the majority to suffer under minority politics?  Do you cherish distraction or do you cherish truth?

Matching the viscosity of the mind to the changing environment.

Now, think of the mind as the motor, and the oil as "parental" viscosity.  Matching viscosity to the mind's environment is key. 
Viscosity defines fluid's stubbornness to flow (or change progressively).  For example, higher learning is politically retarding their students with ignorance; to harvest voters for their preferred government.  The higher the viscosity of a liquid, the thicker it is and the greater the stubbornness to flow (or change progressively).  Example, you can't use motor oil designed for winter temperatures in summer time, because the viscosity is too low.  The oil will break down (under the heat) and ruin the motor.  You can't use motor oil designed for hot temperatures in the winter, because the viscosity is too high.  The oil will freeze into sludge and the motor will seize.  There are different operating windows in a changing environment.  

​Canada's identity is not about freedom but compassion.  However it has to be sustainable compassion to allow citizens to experience freedom more often than not.  How do we as citizens achieve this?  It starts with how parents parent their children with a sustainable compassion (in exchange for freedom); by matching the parental viscosity to the mind's environment.  An uncooperative child means your "parental" viscosity does not match their
​stubborn mind.  More stubbornness means less flow.  Let go of hesitation.  Just go with the flow.  It's ok.  You can't resist forever...it will be too late to address the issue if you delay.  You are unable to sustain compassion for your children because they take away your freedoms with their stubbornness.

Are you entertained by your ignorance?  Sounds a lot like stubbornness is based on vanity.  It's your stubbornness that does not forgive the ignorance of others.  This is politics.  We as humans are instinctually-ignorant.  Instinctually because it only ever considers a selfish route for survival.  Your stubbornness that does not forgive the ignorance of others, robs us of our compassion.  We are instinctually-uncompassionate.  God instinctually-loves; our selfishness is already forgiven, just so long as you accept, doubt will damn you.  All I do is point to Jesus when I'm too weak.  Do not laugh at your child's ignorant-born stubbornness.  They'll remember that you enjoy their prison.  Children hold us prisoner with their stubbornness.  The appeal of exasperation (being a prisoner) is in your vanity, laughing as a reaction to ignorant-born stubbornness teaches others you enjoy your mind's prison.  That's political retardation at work.

Our children hold us hostage (with the appeal) of their ignorant-born stubbornness.  Our children control how sustainable our compassion is.  When you get mad at your child, you rebel.  Hey kid...prison is no longer an option for a parent.  Yet...children need confinement in an idiocracy.  Canada is an idiocracy.  Less idiocy is better.  Agreed?  So what's the solution?  Break their will first before idiocracy goes too far and destroys their optimism.  When I told my parents I wanted to be an artist, they said there's no money in it.  I wouldn't have the property and family I have without that advice.  Now that I'm on disability leave I have the opportunity to pursue my dream.  In an idiocracy, achieving the impossible is the philosophy of a dreamer.  Don't set their expectations so high as to succeed in an idiocracy (like being a TicTok'r) because next thing you know you'll be selling your farts in jars.  Excellence and consistency is my goal; to revolve around excellence and consistency.  Want to learn more?  Read as much on this page as your can stomach.  Never allow accommodation to be the student's goal.  Your child is your student.

The goal of a student is to be a quality employee.  If the goal of the student is accommodation, you make a poor choice as an employee.  But…the optics (for a public company) forgives poor choices (through charity) if...it’s visible to the naked eye.  That’s why people with mental disabilities dye their hair, get tattoos, piercings etc.  they are poor choices professionally.  That’s a visual cue to employer that competency is a factor.  If universities are producing poor choices, companies will accommodate them through disability, gender, and race privileges.  Why? Companies and Schools want to vote as a collective, so charity adopts the manipulatable (i.e. useful idiots).  Oh and don't forget poor parenting.  To someone with an invisible disability, the desire to be acknowledged as competent is marred by a lack of poor choices that both visually and audibly stimulate affection.  Affection is fluid.  It's viscous.  The desired perception poor choices accomplish, turns off/on our compassion, because you look and act like a child who can't cope when they don't get their way.  Would you honestly trust someone with a mental disability?  The discrimination of stigma may be valid, unless they may...have the advantage of being highly highly manipulable to suggestion.  That's the ingredient for political retardation: useful idiots.

WHAT ARE THE PRECEPtS OF brainsmithy? (EXPAND)

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The Precepts of Brainsmithy

The mind is the motor and the company is the viscosity.  Yet having a broken brain may...equal an advantage.  How?  We're forced to know ourselves.  People in denial and delusion have NO incentive to know themselves.  That's why they live a life of denial and delusion within a company with an ever evolving viscosity.  With help, mentally ill people have the will to excel because they are more desperate to win opportunities; for mentally ill people.  Why?  Read on.

​1. Competency.  Based on the context of an interview, the applicant must prove their competency.  The employer must not discriminate without cause.  The applicant must be certain their employer understands (their disability) to properly assess how much lacking of competency (or results) can be forgiven in the role.  The employer must be certain their applicant understands the obligation to deliver results despite their lacking of competency (compared to the company's definition of an able minded person).  Employers mustn't shame people for a disability, but the inability of an applicant to market their disability to employers hampers not only the measuring of competency but the marketability of advertising a progressive working environment to the public.  Optics matter most.  Unfortunately.

2. Morale and Marketing.  Competency is negotiable.  Invisible disabilities don't offer the advantage of physical disabilities to employers because of the optics.  The more public facing the company, is the more important optics matter.  What's the data say about the likelihood of types of people with disabilities getting hired?  Maybe some simply cannot be appropriately accommodated for so competency is a convenient justification to pass on a candidate.  Does this make a case for discrimination?  If the data supports excluding certain types of disabilities as a rule, there's no amount of compensation that will forgive the lack of results.  Businesses are not charities, but they can be charitable.  Invisible disabilities are unlikely to offset their inability to perform through optics alone; accommodate the applicants ability to improve company optics (i.e. Art).  Companies can hire based on optics for morale and marketing.  

3. Accommodation.  I recommend in-house training or permanent "training-wheels."  Companies worship outside perspectives to evaluate processes and efficiencies.  The competency should be determined based on how well the candidate can identify processes and efficiencies.  That exercise will determine the ratio between optics and competency.  Suggestions from either side can be offered to boost optics and/or competency.  For example, work from home, an anchored desk with dividers or even a personal studio.  The onus is on the disabled to know what and how their accommodations will boost competency and optics within the company.  The onus is on the employer to not discriminate.  

Why Brainsmithy? I work for free, and I love what I do.

Today's parents must earn the trust, and authority of their children.  Google has no humility, no shame, no conscience, no dignity; it serves up a fallibly vain, tone deaf wisdom.  Parents are meant to be the trusted source for curious minds questioning paralytically awkward subjects such as sex, gender and deviant thoughts.  Without parents knowhow or courage, children are vulnerable to substitutes within politically tilted institutions such as education, search engines and influencers.  Government didn't destroy the nuclear family, they destroyed weak father's.  How?  Men are indoctrinated to think they're stupid through the politics of entertainment.  Why?  To enslave the working man's desire for sexual advertisement.  Sex sells, a lot.  I'm a weak father, that's why I point to Jesus when I'm too weak to overcome.  I worked my entire 12 year career in a corporate banking environment.  Now that I'm on disability leave, I'm forced to prioritize my family, not work.  It's a life long endeavor to define and overcome the weak man's shame of being a stay at home father.

You can't leave your children in the hands of "professionals" to investigate awkward questions because non-parents are in the business of stopping young minds short of reality through propaganda and/or dubious educational paywalls (like university); offering up bleeding edge results that titillate innocent minds to rebel against (or succeed) the wealth of authority in their parents.  Parents are supposed to prepare their children to survive government indoctrination.  The government's dependancy on getting financially compensated for father's child support simultaneously destroys the modern woman with severe feminism.  With the allure of child support, government is the progressive father raising "your" children; if this is you you have bucked your responsibilities as a parent!  Denial!  Delusion!  Irresponsibility is the gateway (for non-parents) to supplant parents as the authoritative source.  Innocence is exchanged for wisdom; that wisdom should come from parents, not influencers.  Let's start with politics because that is the tool of tyrants.  I have documented the mechanism for politics below called "The Mechanism of Politics."

As a father, I point to Jesus when I'm too weak to overcome.  That said, I'm the authoritative source for politics in my household because my politics are predictably fallible.  Why does that make me an authority?  I'm honest about my fallible priorities; or would you rather prefer an illusive jerk that lies?  Do your children want to live with someone who is predictable (like a dad), or illusive (like a jerk)?  After psychosis, I had to learn who I was from scratch.  Who was I?  Seven years later I have completely documented how hypocrisy is a segregated belief system that is abused by politicians to make money from grooming our children; disguising the policy funder's dubious agenda.  Whatever your politics are, come enjoy a unique take on politics that dives deeper than institutions dare be associated with.  Why?  *wink* it's not profitable.  I trust in my logic to serve a purpose: to educate parents trying to convince their children their lived experience "automatically" ordained them as a trusted source of wisdom.  It's not automatic.  Parents have the courage to love their children despite what society thinks.  It's not automatic to your children; to them you have to earn it by being an example of discipline.  Brats resent discipline.

What makes me an authority?  That's for you to decide.  I'm doing this to exercise my conscience in my community of Georgetown Ontario Canada.  I have lived experience through psychosis.  It's a severe mental disorder.  It forced me to know myself faster than I could recall needing help.  How did I finally realize I needed help?  I recorded 7 years of hyper-introspection into books and grew my awareness well beyond the influence of my denial and delusions.  What's hyper about it?  In psychosis, my mind was fucked by God for 3+ days straight.  It's taken me 7 years to overcome those three days.  It forced me to accept completely that I'm not perfect, yet that's not an excuse to buck my responsibility as a parent to answer my children's questions.  Even the answers to paralytically awkward questions, like "Hey dad, what's a blowjob?"  Don't teach your kids to play dumb in exchange for bucking their responsibility of exercising discipline.  I'm raising virgins.  How would I answer you may ask to the question, what is a blowjob?  "It's something a virgin will regret."  If they ask why?  "Virgins truly appreciate the value of abstinence."  Virginity is the forbidden fruit you dangle behind marriage.  If you don't believe my logic is sound, you're free to leave.  Otherwise you can reach me at john.tuccitto@brainsmithy.com

Trust a parent to know one day you'll retire from fucking your partner.  Sex is for making babies.  There's more to life than sex.  Abstinence raises your value amongst those who respects virgin soil.  That's a common sense game trying to marry off your children.  A bitten apple spoils one's virginity forever.  Make it count.

Why should I trUst you?  (EXPAND)

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Why?  I know the truth about deviant thoughts.  Heh, I know the answer to the question "why?"  Good is Tinder.  Impressed?

How do I assure you that I can help.  I am convinced.  My livelihood does not hinge on your approval.  I have no reason to lie about my abilities as "a suture" to braid together your own mythology into a permanent cure.  Ironically this cure is worse than the disease.  That is why denial and delusion are everyone's idea of good mental health.  Denial and delusion.  What's the cure?  You understand that the reality of denial is false hope.  I will define your delusions within a mythology that exercises your guilt, but keeps sensitive details private to only those who deserves to know your truth.  To have your trust earned, is a gift from Jesus.  That's how people bond "platonically."

​Platonic...yeah right.  I call it Plantonic.  It's not a friendship, it's a story about a person who wants to share their story with someone they desire their attention.  Sex is the perfect climax to a one-sided affair.  I never had a physical affair, but I've had plenty... of one-sided emotional affairs.  So unfortunately one-sided it was obvious to my coworkers.  It was probably discussed at work as gossip.  "Game" as they call it, can make a vulnerable woman give up her wet pussy.  Why?  How?  The least trustworthy people are the most sought after.  It's not confidence that's attractive, it's the transparent manipulation of trust.  Women consent to being manipulated.  Confidence peels back the fluttering fear of consequences which is why the opportunity to earn trust shrinks with each "climax."  

My climax's were not exercised sexually, they were thoughts documented in books I wrote.  That's what I recommend to everyone I meet (which is not many).  Know who you are.  How?  Through JE-SUS!  He's got all the big dick energy you crave...however he only loves you platonically.  Talk about Jesus friend-zoning the planet.  No wonder we crave plantonic affairs...we are socially assembling an army of simps to suit our tingling needs.  You could be repelled by flaws or won over by charm.  The reality of denial is false hope.

Explain delusion into this?  This is my cure to the unfortunate reality we all share together, delusion denies us THE truth and their truth.  Welcome to politics 101.  Conspiracy denies us THE truth and their truth.  If you really want to know the truth behind your deviant thoughts you have to love your worst enemy.  Yourself.  It's the deepest man can think.  Profit is denial.  Intelligent people choose to let their brilliance go to waste in cemeteries.  That's not a sad story, that's our goal.  If you reading this were in fact smart (and you knew me), you would pay attention to what I have to say before I die.  Help me care. 

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Resource Runway

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*1. Critical thinking

*2. The Mechanism of Politics

*3. The Mechanism of Temptation

*4. The Origins of Wokism

*5. Idolizing Contraception

*6. Phobic to Flaw

*7. The Culture of Evidence

*8. Suffocating Kindness

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